Comments on: How can I get over and cope with the fact that my Music minister at my church HATES MY GUTS?! He’s gorgeous! http://www.rufappstate.org/ministry-music/how-can-i-get-over-and-cope-with-the-fact-that-my-music-minister-at-my-church-hates-my-guts-hes-gorgeous Mon, 12 Jul 2010 21:08:25 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: churchboy http://www.rufappstate.org/ministry-music/how-can-i-get-over-and-cope-with-the-fact-that-my-music-minister-at-my-church-hates-my-guts-hes-gorgeous/comment-page-1#comment-4884 churchboy Sat, 06 Feb 2010 19:44:59 +0000 http://www.rufappstate.org/ministry-music/how-can-i-get-over-and-cope-with-the-fact-that-my-music-minister-at-my-church-hates-my-guts-hes-gorgeous#comment-4884 I've seen this happen over and over again. I usually try not to date within an organization such as this one. It's like mixing business with pleasure. I understand the ministers position and I think he did the right thing. Also I think what you did was natural because a lot of us have dated are liked somebody within the organization they we affiliated with. So don't feel bad or be afraid him because of his response. I'll say email him once more to apologize and keep it a business like relationship from now on! Don't forget to pray for him understand you and that the situation isn't blown out of proportion. Everything should be fine!<br><b>References : </b><br>experience I’ve seen this happen over and over again. I usually try not to date within an organization such as this one. It’s like mixing business with pleasure. I understand the ministers position and I think he did the right thing. Also I think what you did was natural because a lot of us have dated are liked somebody within the organization they we affiliated with. So don’t feel bad or be afraid him because of his response. I’ll say email him once more to apologize and keep it a business like relationship from now on!
Don’t forget to pray for him understand you and that the situation isn’t blown out of proportion. Everything should be fine!
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]]> By: Palori http://www.rufappstate.org/ministry-music/how-can-i-get-over-and-cope-with-the-fact-that-my-music-minister-at-my-church-hates-my-guts-hes-gorgeous/comment-page-1#comment-4883 Palori Sat, 06 Feb 2010 19:26:59 +0000 http://www.rufappstate.org/ministry-music/how-can-i-get-over-and-cope-with-the-fact-that-my-music-minister-at-my-church-hates-my-guts-hes-gorgeous#comment-4883 Please don't believe he hates your guts. You just got your feelings hurt. Since you didn't mean any harm just hold on to that. No harm ~ no foul. Be grateful that he directly told you how he'd like you to handle any communication in the future. Respect his wishes and the confused feelings you're having will go away. You didn't do anything wrong, but you did get re-directed. Try not to take it personally. Sing sing sing...that's why you're in the choir!<br><b>References : </b><br> Please don’t believe he hates your guts. You just got your feelings hurt. Since you didn’t mean any harm just hold on to that. No harm ~ no foul. Be grateful that he directly told you how he’d like you to handle any communication in the future. Respect his wishes and the confused feelings you’re having will go away. You didn’t do anything wrong, but you did get re-directed. Try not to take it personally. Sing sing sing…that’s why you’re in the choir!
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]]> By: lil dreamer grl http://www.rufappstate.org/ministry-music/how-can-i-get-over-and-cope-with-the-fact-that-my-music-minister-at-my-church-hates-my-guts-hes-gorgeous/comment-page-1#comment-4882 lil dreamer grl Sat, 06 Feb 2010 19:20:59 +0000 http://www.rufappstate.org/ministry-music/how-can-i-get-over-and-cope-with-the-fact-that-my-music-minister-at-my-church-hates-my-guts-hes-gorgeous#comment-4882 gee, at my church the music minsters, well, you won't like. but i guess that you should just act normal and not too flirty. sorry! that wasn't a really good answer.<br><b>References : </b><br> gee, at my church the music minsters, well, you won’t like. but i guess that you should just act normal and not too flirty. sorry! that wasn’t a really good answer.
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]]> By: J G http://www.rufappstate.org/ministry-music/how-can-i-get-over-and-cope-with-the-fact-that-my-music-minister-at-my-church-hates-my-guts-hes-gorgeous/comment-page-1#comment-4881 J G Sat, 06 Feb 2010 19:03:59 +0000 http://www.rufappstate.org/ministry-music/how-can-i-get-over-and-cope-with-the-fact-that-my-music-minister-at-my-church-hates-my-guts-hes-gorgeous#comment-4881 It doesn't sound like he hates you. It sounds like he just wants to keep your relationship professional. There is nothing wrong with that. If you are part of an adult choir, I am sure you can deal with a professional only relationship. How do you get over him? Just get over him. It is ok to be attracted, but realize that is as far as it should ever go.<br><b>References : </b><br> It doesn’t sound like he hates you. It sounds like he just wants to keep your relationship professional. There is nothing wrong with that. If you are part of an adult choir, I am sure you can deal with a professional only relationship.

How do you get over him? Just get over him. It is ok to be attracted, but realize that is as far as it should ever go.
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]]> By: JJ http://www.rufappstate.org/ministry-music/how-can-i-get-over-and-cope-with-the-fact-that-my-music-minister-at-my-church-hates-my-guts-hes-gorgeous/comment-page-1#comment-4880 JJ Sat, 06 Feb 2010 18:22:59 +0000 http://www.rufappstate.org/ministry-music/how-can-i-get-over-and-cope-with-the-fact-that-my-music-minister-at-my-church-hates-my-guts-hes-gorgeous#comment-4880 Just tell him you are sorry if you offended him and you meant no harm and you agree that from now on your relationship should be professional.<br><b>References : </b><br> Just tell him you are sorry if you offended him and you meant no harm and you agree that from now on your relationship should be professional.
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]]> By: Dan the car man http://www.rufappstate.org/ministry-music/how-can-i-get-over-and-cope-with-the-fact-that-my-music-minister-at-my-church-hates-my-guts-hes-gorgeous/comment-page-1#comment-4879 Dan the car man Sat, 06 Feb 2010 17:34:59 +0000 http://www.rufappstate.org/ministry-music/how-can-i-get-over-and-cope-with-the-fact-that-my-music-minister-at-my-church-hates-my-guts-hes-gorgeous#comment-4879 GROW UP and move on and most important trust God for YOUR man not your hormones<br><b>References : </b><br> GROW UP and move on and most important trust God for YOUR man not your hormones
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]]> By: Billy http://www.rufappstate.org/ministry-music/how-can-i-get-over-and-cope-with-the-fact-that-my-music-minister-at-my-church-hates-my-guts-hes-gorgeous/comment-page-1#comment-4878 Billy Sat, 06 Feb 2010 17:04:59 +0000 http://www.rufappstate.org/ministry-music/how-can-i-get-over-and-cope-with-the-fact-that-my-music-minister-at-my-church-hates-my-guts-hes-gorgeous#comment-4878 It may not be anything personal. He may just want to draw a very clear line between his professional(?) and personal life.<br><b>References : </b><br> It may not be anything personal. He may just want to draw a very clear line between his professional(?) and personal life.
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]]> By: V_for_Venereal http://www.rufappstate.org/ministry-music/how-can-i-get-over-and-cope-with-the-fact-that-my-music-minister-at-my-church-hates-my-guts-hes-gorgeous/comment-page-1#comment-4877 V_for_Venereal Sat, 06 Feb 2010 16:39:59 +0000 http://www.rufappstate.org/ministry-music/how-can-i-get-over-and-cope-with-the-fact-that-my-music-minister-at-my-church-hates-my-guts-hes-gorgeous#comment-4877 A minister with a harem...cool!! Seems like you crossed the line. You shouldn't flirt with him. Your avatar is too cute! don't tempt him! You also seem to have a lot of crushes. calm your wandering eye and take a cold shower.<br><b>References : </b><br> A minister with a harem…cool!!

Seems like you crossed the line. You shouldn’t flirt with him. Your avatar is too cute! don’t tempt him! You also seem to have a lot of crushes. calm your wandering eye and take a cold shower.
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